Never underestimate the power of a warm greeting, a kind-hearted “hello” or an engaging smile. It could save your life as Rabbi Shapira discovered when he was on death’s row in Auschwitz near the end of the Second World War.
In the late 1930’s the chief rabbi of the Polish village of Prochink was in the habit of taking long, invigorating walks into the countryside. The Rabbi, who was known for his warm, loving, and compassionate ways, always made a point of greeting everyone whose path he crossed –Jew and non-Jew alike-and, adhering to a Talmudic dictum, always tried first to greet them warmly.
One of the people he regularly greeted on his daily walks was a man by the name of Herr Mueller, whose farm lay on the outskirts of the town. Every morning, Rabbi Shapira would pass the farmer as he diligently worked in his fields. The rabbi would nod his head and expansively boom in a hearty voice, “Good morning Herr Mueller!”
When the rabbi had first embarked on his morning constitutional and had begun greeting Herr Mueller, the farmer would turn away in stony silence. Relations between Jews and non-Jews in this village were not good, and friendships were rare. But Rabbi Shapira was not deterred or discouraged. Day after day, he would greet the silent Herr Mueller with a hearty hello, until, finally convinced of the Rabbi’s sincerity, the farmer began returning the greeting with a tip of his hat and a hint of a smile. This routine went on for many years.
It finally stopped when the Nazis came.
Rabbi Shapira and his family were transferred from one concentration camp to the next until they reached the final destination point: Auschwitz. As he disembarked from the train, he was ordered to join the line where selection was taking place. Standing in the back of the line, he saw from a distance the camp commandant’s baton swing left, swing right. He knew that left signified certain death, but right bought time and possible survival.
His heart palpitating, he drew closer to the commandant as the line surged forward. He was one person away from the man in charge of the selection, the man whose arbitrary decision could send him into the flaming ovens. Despite his own fear, he looked curiously, almost boldly into the face of the commandant as his turn was called. At that moment, the man turned to glance at him, and the eyes locked.
Rabbi Shapira said quietly, “Good morning, Herr Mueller!” Herr Mueller’s eyes, cold and unfathomable, twitched for a fraction of a second. “Good morning, Herr Rabiner!” he answered, also very quietly.
And then he swung his baton forward. “Right” he muttered with a barely perceptible nod.
Right to…Life!
—Offered by Samuel Sharpira.
Comment:
Rabbi Sharpira’s warm greeting saved his life. We learn from him the power of greeting others warmly, without prejudice. Try to greet every person you encounter each day with a smile for today will never come again.
—Fr. Hugh Duffy
11 Comments
Catherine McGlynn
It costs absolutely nothing to greet another person. I always try to remember when I am out that a person you meet may not have had a smile nor someone to speak to in days, and for me to do so only takes a moment – and the joy is mine too as I have met many people. This happens when you are receptive to others.
Hugh Duffy
It’s the little things, Catherine, that make all the difference. It may seem little to one, but to someone else it may mean all the world. Thanks for sharing you comment.
Did you know that John M. Synge picked up the brilliant language in “Playboy of the Western World” by simply greeting passers by and starting a conversation along the roads of Western Ireland?
Tom Walsh
Beautiful and human. It costs nothing to give a smile or say a greeting to people who cross our paths each day of our lives. Just like this amazing story, people come into our lives for a reason. Thank you for sharing Fr. Hugh.
Jo Siedlecka
Beautiful story. Thank you!
Mary Ann Temple
Good morning, Fr Duffy,
As always, I have enjoyed your story.
Also , want to share with you that Faye’s 100th
Birthday is coming up. Her daughter called to have a Mass said on the day. I don’t remember the date but it is soon.
And a Happy Valentine’s Day to you.
Love, Mary Ann
Hugh Duffy
Thanks, Mary Ann, for letting me know about Fay’s 100th birthday. I’ll remember her at my mass tomorrow. What a lady.
Patricia
Some of my most memorable times are fleeting moments I have encountered with strangers. Joyful, heartfelt gifts. Thank you so much for sharing.
Anne Parkhurst
It brings joy to another person, but it also brings joy to my heart. This is a beautiful story. Thank you.
Ed Mirasol
Beautiful story with an important lesson coming from someone with a beautiful heart.
María Inés
An hour ago I was reading about love. The writer encouraged us, Catholic, to love without expectations, speculation, or because we are loved. Can we? I wonder.
We can start by smiling from the bottom of our hearts.
Thank you Father Duffy.
From Argentina. Ine
Tom Rooney
Good lesson lovely storey ,thank you and good day to you Father Hugh