In God’s eyes, you never lose your value. Let me illustrate this life-saving truth by means of a story.
The retreat master held up a freshly printed, twenty dollar bill.
“How many of you would like to have this bill?” he asked the anxious audience.
All hands went up.
He proceeded to crumble the $20 note in his hand.
Then he asked, “Who still wants this $20 bill.”
All hands went up in the air again.
“Well, what if I do this—”
He dropped the note on the ground, and began to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up from the floor, crumpled and dirty.
“Now who wants this bill?”
Still, the hands went up in the air.
“My friends, you have all learned a very important lesson today,” he explained. “No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth twenty dollars.”
The same is true of us. Our value never changes.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the bad decisions we make, and by unexpected circumstances that come our way. We may feel as though we are worthless, and that life isn’t fair. But, no matter what has happened or may happen in your life, you will never lose your value.
Dirty or clean, crumpled or neatly creased, you are still priceless to the One who loves you. The worth of your life lies, not in what you do or who you know, but in your precious value as a child of God.
You are special because God loves you.
Never forget that!
—Fr. Hugh Duffy
8 Comments
Tom Walsh
Lovely story and powerful reality Fr. Hugh. Thank you for sharing. I can associate with the feeling of being devalued by God, but that is my thinking.
The story you shared about the 20 dollar bill really puts it all in context. No matter how dirty, grubby or crumpled it gets, it is still worth 20 Dollars.
This sharing has given me a new outlook on the value and love that God has of me. Thank you.
Cyndy Clark
The smartest thing I ever did was sign up for your emails. You are truly a blessing. Thank you for your words of wisdom.
Bartholomew Okere
Fr. Duffy, another priceless & masterpiece words of reflection cum wisdom. The difference between being valued & devalued came to light through your story of the 20 dollar. That story has lot to tell about me, my life journeys & where I found myself today. The climax of your reflection is captured in the song, “It’s well with my soul” one of my favorite songs. Thanks for uplifting people’s minds.
Lois Bradley
A Big thank you Fr. Duffy. I look forward to your emails as I find each one so helpful in my daily struggle with life.
Bridget Weiner
Fr. Duffy, you have been a blessing in my life, and your emails have positively impacted how I look at my daily struggles. Your insights enable me to be more positive for myself and share it with my others too. Thank you so much!
Hugh Duffy
Thanks for your comments. I find it uplifting to know my blogs impact so many of your lives positively. Whenever you feel like that, please share the blog with your friends. You never know how much you can impact another life. That’s why I write them. So, pass them on.
Kathleen Rowley
Fr.Duffy what an awesome reminder that God loves us through out our life. We are born crispy clean and as we live our lives we become slightly soiled and sometimes even end up getting ground into the dirt, but no matter what we never lose our value to God! He always loves us! Thank you!
Monica
Wonderful story Fr Hugh, & so true ,
Thank you so much for sharing