—Gospel of Matthew 7:12
Jack took a long look at his speedometer before slowing down: 73 in a 55 zone. How could a guy get caught so often?
When his car had slowed to 10 miles an hour, Jack pulled over, but only partially. Let the cop worry about the potential traffic hazard. The cop was stepping out of his car, the big pad in hand. Bob? Bob from Church?
Jack sunk farther into his trench coat. This was worse than the coming ticket. A Christian cop catching a guy from his own church. A guy who happened to be a little eager to get home after a long day at the office. A guy he was about to play golf with tomorrow. Jumping out of the car, he approached a man he saw every Sunday, a man he’d never seen in uniform.
“Hi, Bob. Fancy meeting you like this.”
“Hello, Jack.” No smile.
“Guess you caught me red-handed in a rush to see my wife and kids.”
“Yeah, I guess.”
Bob seemed uncertain. Good. “I’ve seen some long days at the office lately. I’m afraid I bent the rules a bit-just this once.” Jack toed at a pebble on the pavement.
“Diane said something about roast beef and potatoes tonight. Know what I mean?”
“I know what you mean. I also know that you have a reputation in our precinct.”
Ouch. This was not going in the right direction. Time to change tactics.
“What’d you clock me at?”
“Seventy. Would you sit back in your car please?”
“Now wait a minute here, Bob. I checked as soon as I saw you. I was barely nudging 65.” The lie seemed to come easier with every ticket.
“Please, Jack, in the car.”
Flustered, Jack hunched himself through the still-open door. Slamming it shut, he stared at the dash board. He was in no rush to open the window.
The minutes ticked by. Bob scribbled away on the pad. Why hadn’t he asked for a driver’s license? Whatever the reason, it would be a month of Sundays before Jack ever sat near this cop again. A tap on the door jerked his head to the left. There was Bob, a folded paper in hand.
Jack rolled down the window a mere two inches, just enough room for Bob to pass him the slip.
“Thanks.” Jack could not quite keep the sneer out of his voice.
Bob returned to his police car without a word. Jack watched his retreat in the mirror. He unfolded the sheet of paper. How much was this one going to cost? Wait a minute. What was this? Some kind of joke? Certainly not a ticket.
Jack began to read: “Dear Jack, Once upon a time I had a daughter. She was six when killed by a car. You guessed it—a speeding driver. A fine and three months in jail, and the man was free. Free to hug his daughters. All three of them. I only had one, and I’m going to have to wait until Heaven before I can ever hug her again. A thousand times I’ve tried to forgive that man. A thousand times I thought I had. Maybe I did, but I need to do it again. Even now. Pray for me. And be careful, Jack, my son is all I have left. Bob.”
Jack turned around in time to see Bob’s car pull away and head down the road. Jack watched until it disappeared. A full fifteen minutes later, he too, pulled away and drove slowly home, praying for forgiveness and hugging a surprised wife and kids when he arrived.
Life is too precious. So, handle it with prayer, and try to
never drive faster than your Guardian Angel can fly.
Remember, cars are not the only thing recalled by their maker.
12 Comments
Cecile Erlsten
Thank you Fr Duffy…
We need to heed our road signs such as Stop-Look and Listen
STOP … to see how fast we are going and for what
LOOK…around us and see how fast life is passing us by
LISTEN…to our Guardian Angel, who can do just so much at
Keeping us safe, but we have to do our part too!
Yielding to an attitude of gratitude-God bless
Hugh Duffy
Thanks for this advice, Cecile. Hope you are well and doing well.
Carrie
Thank you, Fr. Duffy
My 18 year old son was speeding when he lost control of the vehicle and crashed head on into a tree……3 days later, he died. I thank God no one else was hurt or killed in this accident. We all feel so invincible when driving, in control, and free, but the harsh reality is that it only takes a split second to loose control of the vehicle and end a life.
Hugh Duffy
Sorry to hear about you 18 year old son, Carie, who died in a car accident. This must have torn you apart back then. But, God is good and He never gives us more than we can handle. I’ll pray for your son at mass, carie, this coming Sunday, and I’ll remember you also. Our lives are very fragile and young people feel a sense of invincibility. As we age, we become more aware of our mortality.
Maureen Winkler
Wonderful lesson … thank you Fr. Duffy
Adriana
Hoy, como siempre una gran lección con esta lectura. Muchas gracias padre Duffy. Me encanta recibir y leer sus mails. Mucho que aprender y mucho que agradecer.
Hugh Duffy
Muchos geacias, Adriana.
Carrie
Thank you so much, Father. I am so appreciative of Masses being said for my son, Anthony, and for our family; it is the greatest gift to us. Please also pray for our other son, Gabriel. He is Anthony’s younger brother. He died by suicide 8 months after the car accident. He had a very serious mental illness and with the death of his older brother….. Anthony died in 2007 and Gabriel died in 2008.
Hugh Duffy
I’ll be sure to remember Gabriel at mass also, Carie. You’re a marvelous woman of faith to have borne such suffering in your life. God’s Son, Jesus, and His Mother must have a special place in their hearts for you. Please keep me in your prayers.
Carrie
Thank you very much for remembering our sons at Mass and for your kindness, Father. I will also remember you in my prayers.
Carrie
Jan Dwyer
Great story, Father! May God bless all that you do!
Hugh Duffy
Thanks, Jan.